After some duration ago, we talked with an audience which was struggling to have over a six month вЂrelationshipвЂ™ where it had become apparent that he previously an interest that is limited ended up being seeing other females. Some feedback was wanted by her on a contact she meant to deliver to him expressing her discontent, which instantly had me personally inquisitive. All became clear whenever I inquired about how many times they communicated and there had just been two phonecalls in half a year. Anything else had been texts and e-mail. That wasnвЂ™t a вЂrelationshipвЂ™ вЂ“ it had been like being fully a intimate pen pal.
Whenever all of it boiled right down to it, almost all of the sluggish communication via text and e-mail served 4 purposes:
To prepare to obtain together (read: connect up)
To obtain an ego that is quick
To quickly water her вЂattention gardenвЂ™ making sure that she’d continue steadily to dangle regarding the hook.
To help keep her (and someone else) he had been seeing well away